Communication

11 June 2017


It's interesting to me how different people communicate. Sometimes the way we respond to one another is so natural and easy, the conversation is innately engaging. Yet sometimes it feels like we are just skipping along the surface, not reaching thoughts of any true depth. I don't know if it ends up being that certain people are truly engaged and others are just faking sincerity, if being tired means you can't make the effort, and sometimes I think people really just don't know how to continue a conversation and show that they care. 

I'm trying to research it a bit. I like this TED talk with some basic conversational skills. This is actually one of those topics that I feel comes naturally for me, but I do think that for many people it takes a lot of focus and energy to stay in the conversation. 

"Listen with the intent to understand, not with the intent to reply." And for me personally it's as easy as being sincerely interested in people. 

The Good Old Days

29 May 2017
















As I was looking through pictures over the past month trying to narrow it down to just about 10 that I would post here I realized... this may be the happiest time of my life. I think about Andy from The Office saying "I wish there was a way to know you're in the good old days before you've actually left them" and I am sitting here thinking... I might be lucky enough to know it. 

When I was getting my bachelors at JMU I remember thinking that I wanted to be doing so much more with my time. I was happy, but I kept thinking that I might look back and have regrets about not getting even more things in with my friends. 

Now, I don't have regrets about my time at JMU. I was so incredibly happy there for so much of my time. That was such a blessing for me, especially considering the hardships I faced then. 

But now... it has nothing to do with school but everything to do with the people I am surrounded by. As the pictures for this exact post were uploading I realized that I had such a hard time narrowing down what I wanted to showcase; it would be impossible to catch up and share everything that has happened and how wonderful my time has been. And that was only for one month! 

Just this weekend I met up with my friends four times. We had dinner at Sweet Nola's on Friday after our hospital shifts to talk about our weeks and what we learned. Then on Saturday morning we met to get coffee and hunt pokemon. In the evening we went to a Drag Show and hooted and hollered all night. Sunday morning I shared a brunch with family at Regions 117 before rounding out the afternoon and evening with a game night and canoeing. That is just this weekend. 

I'm not sure that I've ever had friends as good as these. People who also don't have a family to define them, people who view friendship as I do, as a bond that makes you family. And as a self-described introverted extrovert, I have a group that fits me so well. I get to recharge with them all the time doing so many different activities. I feel more alive and happier than I have in a long time and I didn't even fully realize it until now. Of course that feeling has been there for a bit but it wasn't until I looked through these photos that I realized this is a time in my life where I am truly, soulfully happy. 

There are events on the horizon that cast a shadow over these days of course. One of my best friends is leaving soon for a residency and I honestly don't know how to handle his departure. And I know in just one year the rest of my friend group will be looking outward and towards new adventures in life. It's the nature of things, but it doesn't make it any easier. 

For now, I'm trying to enjoy these last days while the group is intact and bask in the realization that these are indeed the good old days.

Prove It To Yourself

04 April 2017


I found this post-it in a bathroom on a stall door and I really appreciated it. This week is tough, I think every week is actually pretty tough when you're pursuing a degree. Some days I forget, but I am powerful. I have grown so much as a person over the years and my skills are constantly pushing the boundaries of my comfort zone. I'm proud of the work I've put in and I can't wait to see where the work takes my friends and me. 

The fact that some random strangers out there want to boost others, that's the type of boost we could all use. Maybe it's not a post-it, but think about something you can do to encourage someone today. A stranger, a friend... we're all in this together after all. I know this one lifted me when I needed it. You never know what difference you can make. 

Alesation Trivia Night

28 March 2017





We had a team of five compete in our first ever trivia night at Alesation, one of the local breweries in town. There were about eight rounds or so total including topics such as: general knowledge, meteorology, disney, star wars, history, and food. 

We went in to have a fun time and actually ended up taking 1st place! The best part really is hanging out with your friends though. I was surprised at how much knowledge we had between us. We ended up with a free round of drinks due to winning a particular round in the competition. We had a great night and hope to do more in the future.

Drag Show

27 March 2017


Last night MB and I went to our first drag show with Will, a veteran. The Hideaway Cafe is a coffee shop in Winchester that hosts a variety of activities every month from action committees, writing workshops, to drag shows. The owner, Victoria, makes you feel like you are immediate friends upon your first visit and remembers you when you come back. The cafe is wonderful!


Will and I were joking with MB about our fraternity, Kappa Epsilon, and our mascot is the unicorn. It's well known that everyone in our fraternity gets along extremely well and is a hard worker. We are very proud of our brothers and our events and we get along like a family. It's a running joke that there's no way we can actually be that happy (we are!). So when this coloring book was discovered under our wine table we were in giggles.


Then the show started at 8pm and there were three queens and a king. Let me tell you, this was a show. It was so upbeat and so much fun! Their outfits were awesome! The energy was high! 


They exude confidence and charisma. We were having a blast watching and interacting with them. The show was sold out entirely (Will bought the very last ticket). 


I would 100% recommend going to a show if you're into this type of thing. You won't be disappointed with the evening! Just be ready to get interactive and scream your lungs out.

Corn Hole

26 March 2017


One of my friends is in a fraternity that hosts a corn hole tournament annually. We went out to support her and her event to watch the teams compete in a bracket, dance to some music, and hang out on one of the first warm days of spring. 


We got to catch up with a few people from pharmacy school that we haven't been able to properly chat with for a while. It was a nice way to spend an afternoon with friends and relax. 


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